Do not judge by looks....
I have came across so many people that judge people by looks alone and I just shake my head and wonder why they want to be so petty by doing that. People fight a hard battle to get to where they like. You only know what your battle is. You do not know what other people have gone through. And if you ask them I almost guarantee that the other person will not tell you their complete story.
They will always hold something back.
I remember once when an older man that I worked with in a factory told me that I had it easy. That all I do when I get home is go to bed. And he never got the chance to go straight to bed when he got home. That he had obligations to handle after he got done working the night shift. And all this because he knew I as single. But what he did not know is that I too had obligations. I worked a night shift. Went home in the mornings and took care of my wheelchair bound father. I did that for a very long time.
So just because someone looks to be at a certain place in their life doesn't mean that they didn't have to weather a great storm to get there.