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Hopefully The Worst Is Over

Last night was very scary! I have never saw anything quite like it before, even with my Grandma. Today, seems to be a lot better. I'm not saying she isn't hurting some, but she isn't hysterically crying and saying random things. It was something else. I just wanted her to go to sleep to put an end to it all. I thought about calling the number they gave us, but they weren't very helpful last time. It's sad when the laws that are meant to help, actually cause more problems for the people who need the help!

What I mean by this is the Nurse couldn't call the Doctor and have him call some stronger pain reliever in and if need-be my Dad couldn't just go pick it up. Are you seeing the problem with this? My Mom was in such horrible pain, but she would have had to wait until the next day or later to see the Doctor. Then, after all that trouble when she would just want to go home, she would personally have to be present to pick up her pain reliever. It's nonsense!

Here's the best part, when my Grandma was on hospice she had Morphine and other medicine delivered right to her door, having only saw a nurse! I get it, totally different scenario. But, you shouldn't have to dying to get such a personalized quality of care. If you are seriously in pain and they know you should be, I think you should have access to whatever you need to make that pain stop. Why can't people just use common sense anymore? Things shouldn't have to be so complicated.


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CoralLevang wrote on November 25, 2015, 4:33 PM

Life truly can be complicated, when we are in the middle of bureaucratic rules.
but life itself is joyous, and complex.

wolfgirl569 wrote on November 25, 2015, 8:10 PM

I expect it to only get harder not easier too. Glad she is better today

luisga814 wrote on November 25, 2015, 8:18 PM

Hope she is now in good mood now. Sometimes in any relationship there is a problem. Better understand her problem too.

LeaPea2417 wrote on November 26, 2015, 12:06 AM

I do hope it all will be better for all of you.

Lillybell wrote on November 26, 2015, 1:43 AM

I do, as well. Thank you

Colibry21 wrote on November 26, 2015, 9:57 AM

It doesn't seem entirely fair. I hope that you guys are able to figure something out. It must be hard to see her in so much pain. Hopefully she keeps on getting better.

ViperGirl85 wrote on November 30, 2015, 12:48 AM

What is their issue? She's in pain and they're supposed to help her. :( I hope she's doing much better by now, and I am so sorry you all have to go through this. :(

lookatdesktop wrote on December 5, 2015, 9:39 PM

I will pray for your Grandmother.

Brenda wrote on December 17, 2015, 11:16 PM

The medical field today is not as it should be. They took an oath and it is not being followed at all. But I so wish you and your loved one the best.