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One very big problem in marriage is the inability of husbands and or wives to remain sincere to their partners. Some people after marriage continue to look outside the marriage for what is already available in the marriage when it comes to sex. They are unable to realize that they would hurt their partners. Sex outside marriage is just like having a plantation farm at your disposal and still wanting to plant small back yard garden. It is not proper to be engage in sex outside marriage.

You can easily destroy your marriage as the trust and love would be eroded away by this unhealthy relationship and in the long run your partner and children would be at the losing end. I have heard of women and men committing suicide because of this.

Cheating i believe is very painful and heart wrecking. The last time i visited a mental hospital, I was told that most of the women admitted are on admission because of marital problems and one of them happened to be unfaithful husbands. Men cheat on their wives more than women. If you are a married person, i urge you to remain sincere in your relationship and marriages. Because of these events most people go into relationships with 50% of their hearts so that in case they get a disappointment they can walk out of the relationship with half heart secured.

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goddess888 wrote on June 11, 2014, 8:06 PM

I noticed that there is a certain stage that men would cheat. I mean I know some friends with their dads like that and they have the same age range when they cheated on their wives.

vanidiana wrote on June 11, 2014, 10:25 PM

that's very sad situation for the whole family.

UmiNoor wrote on June 11, 2014, 10:28 PM

Cheating is the ultimate betrayal in any relationship. I just don't understand why people do it. If they're so unhappy in their present relationship and need to find somebody else, they should cut the ties with their present relationship and only then should they embark on another. It's truly unfair and selfish to enter into another relationship while they're still committed to another person.

africanpen wrote on June 12, 2014, 4:14 AM

That is true it can be liken to killing the other person

africanpen wrote on June 12, 2014, 4:15 AM

And so the new generation of married couples and would be's must desist from that

africanpen wrote on June 12, 2014, 4:16 AM

Naaaah . it can happen at every stage in a marriage. I have heard stories where one partner even cheats on the eve of their wedding