Open your eyes and see reality for what it actually is. too many times people have this thought in there minds of what's going to happen or wish would happen, and waste so much time in that thought they don't know why how or what's coming or going. They hope for a certain outcome or a certain thing to happen instead of realizing it is never going to happen and its better to just except things the way they are. there is nothing you can do or change what has been done, its just better to move on and embrace the new. open new doors find new opportunities and meet new people you just never know who's life you are making better , who you are inspiring and who you are helping. we are all connected so I believe if I am connected to people I hope they are making things better as it will help me so therefore they are not just healing themselves they are healing many other people that they don't realize at the time. so always we should take care of ourselves mind body and soul for that how healing happens and better well being happens to better peoples lives. lots of people in this world have been hurt, have lost and feel like all hope is gone. but if you just touch that one person just one is all it takes it can start a whole positive new change in that persons life and it will be carried forward that will touch other people. it is paying it forward and hope good will come to you. I don't know if who ever is reading this agrees with me or not but we as the people have the power to make things better if we do choose to, and sometimes things do need to be left alone the way it is that one might hurt from it but many other will strive from it. So one person suffers a bit but helps many others is worth the pain sometimes. That pain can make you strong and it will always be there when you need it to push you through whatever life throws at you and that's when you yourself know this is nothing this cant even hurt me anymore nothing can hurt me anymore and I will strive and carry on in life to better me and help as many as I can along the way. Is that what we are suppose to do with our pain. understand it , know it, recognize it so you can see it in others and know to that they are going through something as well and just might need a friend to speak to a person to help them through it or a hug that everything will be ok. so all in a nut shell, know your pain and love it and be glad you have it and make the best of it in the most positive way you just never know what you are going to gain.