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Introduction for JustSaying

I am a widow. Since my husband died ten months ago, the word "widow" is what I have been using to define myself. I imagine it comes from grief. I should feel like I am so much more than that, sometimes it is hard to speak of myself in a positive light. I am a retired e.m.t. I then went into telecommunications management for eight years (you do not need good knee's and back to do that) I am a confessed Diet Coke aholic!! And if I'm choosing the place to eat, it's going to be Mexican food, and the place better have a fabulous Margarita! I love to read, I am a member of the Zoo here and one can find me there visiting all my zoo friends at least three times a week, every morning. I love to catch feeding time! I am also a huge bingo fan! I play for high stakes at the local casinos here. I look forward to writing and being a part of this community. Peace and love Pamela.

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Hollyhocks100 wrote on March 30, 2015, 3:08 PM

Being widowed leaves us bereft in more ways than just not having our husbands by our sides. You are still in the very early stages of grief where nothing much makes sense, but I can assure you from my heart that we all learn to cope with ourselves given time and letting grief run its course. Welcome to PP Pamela, and if you need a shoulder to cry on, you will find plenty of good oneĀ“s here emoticon :grin:

crowntower wrote on March 30, 2015, 3:25 PM

God bless the works of your hands. WELCOME TO PERSONA PAPER justsaying I think I saw you on the Bsites already. Keep on writing and keep every beautiful things you have with your husband so you can smile everyday, and when you miss him just look up to the sky, because I know God is looking at you from heaven and want to comfort you.

xstitcher wrote on March 30, 2015, 5:48 PM

Hello, there. Thank you for the comment on my introductory post, and good to see you. :D

j2jworkz wrote on March 30, 2015, 6:29 PM

Welcome, hope you enjoy the site.

peachpurple wrote on April 11, 2015, 10:20 AM

thanks for describing yourself. Sorry about yr hubby passing. Pls accept my condolence. Do write your favorite food

allen0187 wrote on April 12, 2015, 10:03 PM

Welcome to site Pamela.

So sorry to hear about your loss. We grieve in our own way and hopefully, writing here in the site can help you.

You should really take it easy on the Diet Coke but I'd encourage you to drink more margaritas! LOL!

ashuli wrote on April 23, 2015, 6:45 AM

Hi there ! Welcome to persona paper, i am sure you will enjoy writing here!

MelissaE wrote on April 29, 2015, 8:28 PM

You will enjoy writing for this site. The folks are very personable.