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Is love really blind?

I hear people say Love is Blind. Is this true? My opinion it can and should be. I know being in love makes me blind but not in a bad way. I can think of 3 ways it makes me blind and I'm sure there are more. The feelings that my woman makes me feel are incredible. The love that she has and shows me is like no other. She makes me feel Kilig (like on cloud nine) every single day. So her love allows me to be blind. In what ways does our love make me blind you might ask? First, my love makes me blind to any other woman. I know I have friends that are in relationships and they are always checking out other women and sometimes makes bad comments. Comments that doesn't show their woman any respect. They say..well what can I do, I am a man after all. Well I don't feel that way, Kathy is the only woman that I admire like that. Do I see that other woman are pretty, yes sure, but I don't have bad thoughts or anything like that for them. Love makes me blind to those thoughts and feelings. I truly love Kathy and she is all I need to satisfy my heart, feelings and desires. I feel like when men say the things they do about women that they are not in a relationship with, it just shows they are not happy with the one they are with. I'm truly happy with Kathy in every way. The second way love makes me blind is to what people think. As some of you know we met on a dating site and of course with that you will always have the people that have bad comments. Awww...yes the negative people. The ones that try to fill your head with negative thoughts because they are not happy with their self. My love and feelings don't need any negative in them. All you have to do is look around, or just listen to other people talk about their relationships and you can see how others effect their relationships in a bad way. My love for Kathy has no time for this non-sense. My love will make me blind to the people that try to plant bad seeds, and yes love is worth losing past friendships. The 3rd way love makes me blind is it allows me to forget and forgive the little things in our relationship that might upset me a little. You can go out in public and see couples arguing over the dumbest stuff. If you truly love someone you will forgive the little things that might irritate you. Love should make you blind to these little things. How can you truly be happy if you are always arguing over little things? How will you relationship survive once the big problems arise? Being blind to the little problems will help you get over the big problems.

I feel like letting love make you blind in these 3 ways is a great tool and healthy for any relationship.

Is there anymore ways that Love makes you blind in a healthy good way?

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GemstonePink wrote on February 25, 2015, 10:39 AM

When love is blind, you have a whole wide world of people to love. You do not put up a wall and allow those you normally would not consider come in.

LeaPea2417 wrote on February 25, 2015, 12:07 PM

That is so good that you truly love your wife and have no eyes for any other. It is inspirational.

rodabod wrote on February 25, 2015, 12:13 PM

I'm glad that my thoughts and feelings can inspire. it is part of the reason why I blogg. Thanks for the time you gave me .

LeaPea2417 wrote on February 25, 2015, 12:28 PM

You are welcome.