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I made a decision

Last night I posted about a choice i have to make http://www.personapaper.com/article/23516-a-tough-decision . I really didn't expect much of a response to be honest as it was really just one of those posts where you need to just say it "out loud" more than anything else. But I really appreciate the wonderful and well thought out comments I received they were all very helpful.

I have decided I am going to take the bull by the horns and give it everything I've got. My hands are a little tied for the next 5-6 weeks as my mum is under Dr's orders to have complete rest after an operation so both she and my sister need me at the moment. But I will use some of that time to improve some of the skills I'm going to need and to formulate a game plan and a rough timeline. so that when i can get stuck into it I know exactly where to start and what I'm working towards.

I also need to recognise and prepare for the biggest hurdle i have to face which is my own lack of confidence and my depression. I'm hoping by getting a second gameplan in place which will consist of revisiting various coping methods I have used over the years making sure i use them every day.

I know this isn't going to be easy but it will be more of a personal mission than a project.

Thank you once again for the wonderful comments on my last post


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Comments

maxeen wrote on February 10, 2015, 6:05 PM

Sometimes when we have something all sorted-we think! Then the next day it changes for some strange reason.

Ruby3881 wrote on February 10, 2015, 7:24 PM

Take the time to write out your plans and look for assistance. It's good to know that you want to move ahead now, but just as good that you are working to balance commitments and to take time to shore up your plans.

luisga814 wrote on February 11, 2015, 1:31 AM

writing here in this site will help us to think for a better tough decision.

nbaquero wrote on February 11, 2015, 7:30 AM

phoenixmaid Wishing you the best of luck in your mission. I think the plan you have laid out is great given your current personal circumstances. As long as you persevere through the hard time you will be succesful and you have this community to help you out in any way we can, in spite of the distance. Good Luck!

crowntower wrote on February 11, 2015, 2:53 PM

Just always put Jesus in your heart and everything will fine. Whatever project or decisions that you have to make just always include God in it and He will make sure to move on the areas that you have no control of or things that you really need a greater hand to help you. God bless the works of your hands and may God bless every area of your life.

angelaterese13 wrote on February 11, 2015, 10:59 PM

You can do it! Very smart of you to lay your groundwork and plan carefully now - much more chance of your project succeeding...

UK_Writer wrote on February 12, 2015, 10:30 AM

Lack of confidence partners with Fear of Success. Many people are simply scared of succeeding, so find excuses not to do well etc. A self fulfilling prophecy really

BodieMor wrote on February 19, 2015, 7:53 PM

I wish you the best of luck with your new endeavor, whatever it is!

iwrite28 wrote on May 10, 2015, 1:46 PM

Wish you a quick recovery and success with your project.