How Would You Manage or Handle Emotional Abuse?
Physical abuse can be seen and felt. We can go to the doctor or hospital to get cured. We can put ointment , salve, and even take medicines to help cure the pain and even lessen the pain. The technology of medicine and drugs (medications).
What about emotional abuse ? That can't be seen by others or even you. But only you can feel it. Emotional abuse for me is when someone or more than one are telling you things or saying things about you that hurts. It makes you sad and most of the time you cry and you get this deep ache in you heart that sometimes you can feel it breaking. Some say that a person has died of a broken heart and it can be true. When the heart hurts the muscles and the veins hurt too, they can clog up refuse to pump oxygen or just even stop working. What they say can be true or not.
So how do you handle it? People tell you to pray, talk with someone, even a psychologist . They can help you understand and to get over the emotions . Not really get over them but be able to handle it. Talking to someone can help ease the burden or the heaviness in your hearts. But sometimes it can just be too much to handle and some people recourse to suicide . It hard if they keep badgering you and telling you that you are worthless, not a good mother/father/sister/brother, not at good person, not a good budgeter and worse not good at all.
Maybe that is why there are so many teen-age suicides and middle age suicides. These are the ages when everything is uncertain, too young or too old.
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