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Stay out of trouble

I'm not someone who enjoys being in trouble or to start trouble. I'm a peaceful loving creature who likes to enjoy chatting with friends and talk about just anything and everything under the sun.

Recently, I noticed that no matter how I try to stay out of an argument, argument seems to come closer. And then I realised, I just have to stay out of trouble but how?

I took note of the things that started everything and made a conclusion. To stay out of trouble I must stay away from people who:

1. Have so many hang ups they couldn't seem to get over with

2. Highly stressed out

3. Extremely insecure

4. and pessimistic

I even learned not to start any kind of conversation with people described above as I had already experienced being snapped at. When my husband arrived from a stressful work, I just prefer to stay out of his sight or we would just be arguing. I learned to just answer his questions and ignore his sarcasms.


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Comments

bestwriter wrote on January 29, 2015, 4:16 AM

If you have no alternative but to stick around those who display the above mentioned characteristics then you need to change.

BeadDoodler wrote on January 29, 2015, 9:20 AM

Sometimes when I find myself in company with people like this, I just calmly walk away. One in partucular, gets very irate when people walk away during one of his harangues, but It's my life and if I don't want his negativity invading it, it's my option to argue or walk away. walking away is easier on me.

frenchtoast78 wrote on January 29, 2015, 6:30 PM

Not really change, but I just have to know how to stay quiet.

frenchtoast78 wrote on January 29, 2015, 6:30 PM

Two thumbs up for you for walking away. I, too, am doing that!

nbaquero wrote on January 30, 2015, 3:39 PM

frenchtoast78 Sometimes those are unavoidable but keeping a positive attitude helps. I don't like getting into arguments either.

AliCanary wrote on February 4, 2015, 4:05 PM

Yes, sometimes as cheerful as we are, not everybody else is all that cheerful, so it's hard to avoid getting sucked into their drama, sometimes. I do try to avoid people like that, too.