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Can't go anywhere alone!

We went on a camping trip this weekend with some friends and it caused a huge argument when three particular friends went with us.

We knew his sister was annoyed (at least one of them) that she wasn't going, she doesn't like us going out as a couple with friends she feels that she needs to go.
His mum was fine with us going on Thursday when we told her, Friday when we said bye and Saturday at 10am when we phoned her. An hour later she phoned us very angry asking why the girls didn't get to know and the friends are no longer welcome in this house and was angry his friend wouldn't answer the phone to her, despite us saying he was in a kayak and he doesn't have to answer any calls to anyone.

Apparently it looks bad if we don't take them with us, but they can go out without us and so can his brother. They don't have to invite anyone.

We are unhappy as we came home to something horrible, I was bullied very badly and I have no where to go. I'm currently not working, my family don't live here and we are just stuck here and they know that.

Do you have any advice for me?

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Colibry21 wrote on January 26, 2015, 2:23 PM

I'm really sorry that things are going so well. All I can say is give it time. Maybe talk to your boyfriend, or his sister about it. I'm not quite sure what else to tell you. I really hope that things work out for you.

UK_Writer wrote on January 28, 2015, 4:27 AM

Yes, work quickly on a plan to get away from that toxic relationship! I'd be tempted to go away again - and this time without phoning anybody and having no phones turned on.

Koalemos wrote on January 28, 2015, 11:25 AM

All that they will achieve by this attitude is to alienate him completely.

melon1234 wrote on January 29, 2015, 1:33 PM

This isn't the first time we have had issues with in laws, we are together a long time now and are married not dating. Things aren't going to change

melon1234 wrote on January 29, 2015, 1:43 PM

We're struggling here, we're both finding it difficult here and need to save up and move out of this house together. It isn't healthy

melon1234 wrote on January 29, 2015, 1:45 PM

That is what I fear because it is after all his family, he has already severely distanced himself because things were very very ugly

allen0187 wrote on February 11, 2015, 6:36 PM

Hopefully, things pan out right and you don't have to deal with this nonsense anymore. Talk to your boyfriend about it. Perhaps, both of you can talk to his family or perhaps, let him talk to his family alone. Either way, good luck.