My Baby Died
Having a family is one of the most important things in life. To carry a child for the first time is very memorable for parents. As for me, I have a son and he is 7 years old now.
He has been asking why he does not have any brothers or sisters. We wanted to give the opportunity to have siblings around him. We have been trying for 2 years now.
In 2012, I found out that I was expecting and we we are very excited about it. We told our son to wait until his brother or sister comes out. After a few months, I started having back pains, however, my husband told me to be positive. Three days later, I started to panic because I was spotting the whole day.
We went to the doctor to see what was going on.
Sadly, the doctor cannot find the heart beat anymore. I was devastated. My husband told me to wait for another two years for me to be physically and mentally ready to try again.
Maybe, it happened for a reason. Life does not end in that way, I have to move on and look forward to the future.
Comments
MegL wrote on August 26, 2014, 9:07 AM
I am so sorry to hear about your loss and hope that you have better luck in the future.
ellyse2003 wrote on August 26, 2014, 9:11 AM
thanks. i hope so.
madhavan_as wrote on August 26, 2014, 9:58 AM
so sad to know. take care of yourself. Do Yoga and Meditations to make your mind and body stronger..
LeaPea2417 wrote on August 26, 2014, 10:11 AM
I am very sorry to read this. I had a miscarriage after two years after my first son was born which saddened me a lot. But, at the right time when he was nearly 5 years old, I had my second son. I look back on it and realize God times it right when having children.
SandraLPetersen wrote on August 26, 2014, 10:34 AM
I am a mother of three adult daughters but there was another girl in our family who died of SIDS at two and a half months. I also had a miscarriage a year or two later. I remember the pain of watching the doctor try to find a fetal heartbeat. He had me get an ultrasound and I saw the baby on the screen and that it wasn't moving. It was only about three months developed. A year or two after that I got pregnant again and that girl is now 18 years old, our youngest. Don't lose hope. I feel for your loss and am very sorry for the pain.
OldRoadsOnceTraveled wrote on August 26, 2014, 7:57 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about that. I'm sure it must have been heartbreaking.
paigea wrote on August 26, 2014, 10:17 PM
I am sorry to hear about your heartbreak. I lost a baby to miscarriage as well.
ellyse2003 wrote on August 26, 2014, 10:48 PM
thank you for your advise. I will add that to my routine.
ellyse2003 wrote on August 26, 2014, 10:49 PM
I think that year was not for me to have a new baby. My son is now 7 years old.
ellyse2003 wrote on August 26, 2014, 10:50 PM
Thank you my dear. It is very painful and I hope God would give me another child in the future.
ellyse2003 wrote on August 26, 2014, 10:51 PM
Yes it is and my son was asking when he will see our baby. I told him that our baby is now in heaven.
ellyse2003 wrote on August 26, 2014, 10:52 PM
Thank you. Well, all I have to do is to move on and wait.
AngelSharum wrote on August 27, 2014, 8:27 PM
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how hard it is to lose a child.
Rhymis wrote on August 27, 2014, 9:11 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss, ellyse2003 . You're a very strong woman. I wish you luck & God bless.
ellyse2003 wrote on August 28, 2014, 12:41 AM
I think, right now, I already moved on and looking forward to having another child again.
ellyse2003 wrote on August 28, 2014, 12:43 AM
Thank you dear... Well, we all have our own trials in life...this one definitely helped me become more stronger.
Akshar wrote on August 28, 2014, 7:26 AM
I am so sorry about your miscarriage. As you said everything happens for a reason. Be happy for your son.
ellyse2003 wrote on August 29, 2014, 2:48 AM
Yes, everything has a reason...Thank you dear. I will be happy for my son and will be always there for him.