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What Might Have Been

There are times when I can't help but wonder about things that I did and those that I did not. Those I could have done but chose not to. Sometimes I ask myself, If I did this or that, could things be different today? And what if I did not, am I any better now?

Well one thing I learned, there's no use wondering about what might have been or what could have been. It only stirs up the pain of the past and makes you hurt more. So since we cannot change a thing about it, just take the good things or the lessons that can be learned and leave the others behind. Because what matters most is the today and the many tomorrow that will come so might as well focus on the 'what is' and 'what will be'.

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LoudMan wrote on August 23, 2014, 1:18 AM

The paradox would've been problematic, anyway. So, there's that. :)

MegL wrote on August 23, 2014, 6:10 AM

What has happened, has happened, we are where we are, as a former colleague of mine used to say. What we do TODAY will determine MUCH of what will happen TOMORROW. Today is all we have, make the most of it.

Akshar wrote on August 23, 2014, 8:11 AM

I use to think like this some times.. But there is no use of thinking about the past. Let's think about present and be prepared for future emoticon :smile:

LeaPea2417 wrote on December 27, 2015, 7:04 PM

I know we can't change the past but sometimes I wonder what would have happened if I had ended up with this other guy I still have feelings for.